Yesterday we finally got in to see Dave's primary care doctor. No referrals. Dr. said there was no need for another drain to be put in. His pain is a lot less and dr. says Tylenol and ibuprofen will work the best. Frustrated but at least Dave is better. So I guess this will be an ongoing saga.
We also went to see Lynne yesterday afternoon. It was really a good visit and not as sad as I had anticipated. She was up in her wheelchair and even talked to us a little bit. The Aphasia is very prevalent, with lack of language but we managed to get several really good laughs out of her by saying silly things. That warmed my heart. She did say one very clear sentence. "I want to go outside", So Karen (her daughter) took her out on the front porch...she was only out there for 2 minutes at the most. The temperature was a steaming 100F. Lynne was content with that and had no memory of even doing it one second later.
She is definitely on the decline and so thin but the process may take some time longer. Its hard to know what the body is going to do.
Dave and I didn't actually say a final goodbye to her, just bye until we see you again. That may be here on earth or a reunion in heaven.
We would appreciate your continued prayers as we all go through this stage.
I'm sharing this photo with you because Lynne even managed to give us a little smile for the picture. She does look different since she is not wearing her glasses, due to a small sore on her nose. I'm glad that I have this picture for my memories.
Its going to be another HOT one today. 102-104F
I think I'm going to just stay inside and veg a bit.
Always be Grateful
Always be Kind
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It's nice that her daughter is there to take her outside, even if she doesn't remember it right after. The mind is a funny thing. Sending you all good wishes.
That is a nice picture of your friend. So glad you were able to visit with her and she got to go outside for a bit. Even if she didn't remember it afterwards I bet she enjoyed the moment.
Glad the doctor feels that Dave will be improving. Praying this isn't going to be ongoing.
I'm thankful for a nice visit with Lynn and that you got that photo with her. I'm sure she enjoyed the visit even if she doesn't retain that memory.
Getting older brings some hard times.
What a sweet and wonderful photo. Praying that she will go peacefully in her sleep and wake up in Heaven.
Sad. I’ve already outlived many of my friends and I’m 71. Glad to hear Daves doing better.
That was a lovely visit with your dear friend. It’s good to hear Dave is doing better. Have a great day!
I'm so happy that you were able to get this photo of you and Lynne, with her having a smile on her face. I know your hearts are heavy in seeing your dear friend in this shape. I know all too well how difficult this is. Thankful you all were able to see Dave's doctor. I'm praying for you both and praying for more answers to come soon. In the meanwhile, prayers that Dave continues to improve each day. Also sending hugs to you both as your hearts are heavy for your friend Lynne. The ugly temps are sure hanging out around here. My poor plants...the sun just keeps beating them down. Have a Happy Sunday Sue and Dave!! stay cool...
Awe my gosh so beautiful and so sad at the same time. Life.
Glad Dave is doing ok and your visit is such a sweet thing to do even. When I was watching my BIL I would take him out every day for walks , etc...but he never rememberd from one hour to the next what we had done. Sometimes injust a few minutes he had no idea that he hasn't spent the whole day alone. It is a slow process at times until the day they pass. You and Dave are such kind people. Oh and those temps. Even in the mountains we are having 90 degree but with the UV Index it feels like over 100.
So glad to hear the good report from Dave's doctor. I pray he will continue to improve and soon be totally well. I'm so glad you were able to go and visit with your dear friend Lynne again. Even though you don't think she knows what is going on, we never know for sure, and I am sure having you there brought her a feeling of peace and comfort and of being loved. It's very hard to see our friends and loved ones declining like that, but every moment of their life is precious. Thank you for being present for her at this time. Sending you (((HUGS))). You are a true friend.
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